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Rome – Summer 2017

I’ll post the rest of my adventures in the next update, but here goes:

My holiday has two parts: the first part was 2 weeks with my mum, in Trastevere. The second part is my own. I rented a room from an elderly Italian lady in Ostiense. It’s a shared room and my roommate is an Albanian waitress who speaks no English. I speak very little Italian after 3 weeks here. I seem to have the ability to learn Italian, it just all sinks in. Not sure why though, but I’m loving the benefits and the effects.

Yesterday I was speaking Italian with somebody and he said something which I did not understand, he was rather surprised to learn I wasn’t fluent, saying that my Italian was really good. I almost didn’t believe him, but I’ll take that compliment any day.


  1. Trastevere: Porta portese market

This was on my “to-do” list. I woke up the first Sunday morning in Rome only to find the market all set up directly under my bedroom window. It was interesting, but in a sad way it seemed generic, I recognized many of the things. From other street markets in Rome, and from street markets in other countries and on other continents. I felt blessed to be able to know this, but I was also sorry not to find anything very authentically Italian here.


  1. Piazza Vittorio food market

I have travelled for food for years, but by now I have seen it all. Going to a food market to just wander around and browse is no longer interesting for me. I mean I love going shopping for something, searching for it at different stalls and coming home. This time I went just to “browse” and I could think of all the recipes I’d make with the stuff in front of me, but then reality kicked in. Carrying it home would mean heavy bags and time and the kitchen… The beauty is that I could have gone there. After the market, I went to the park next to it. I think it’s Rome’s version of “Chine town”. The park soon filled up with Chinese people and children. From my limited knowledge, I think they were speaking Manderin. I sat among then for a while, but when the sun started beating down on me I decided to move on. They, however, continued to sit there and live their daily routine.


  1. Borghese Gardens (Rome’s Central Park)

I came here, but I’m not sure I ever found the “real” garden, but I sat in the park. The weather was unable to make up its mind. It started to rain, but then the sun peaked out and the sun beetles continued their song. I walked until I was entirely surrounded by trees, the sound of the sun beetles was almost overwhelming. I sat with my back against a tree and looked at a statue of which I didn’t know the history. But at the base there were two human faces carved. It was beautifully done, the hair flowing, but the eyes stared unseeing, above the faces the statue stood on it’s plinth. A rider on a horse, surrounded by trees infested with sun beetles in a non-touristed corner of the park. Perfect.


  1. Capitoline museums

This museum has 2 parts. I attempted to do it, but I’m not one for museums. I went with Mum, did the first part, but just didn’t have it in me to continue to the second part. I think museums are important, I adore art, I believe it should be protected. I just struggle to take it in all at once sometimes.


  1. St. Peter’s

Did this with Mum as well. Came early in the morning to avoid the queues. It was beautiful, I climbed the tower. It’s almost 600 stairs to the top. I was really pleased to find how fit I was. I did it relatively easily, guzzling water at every level place. At the very top, the final stairs are so narrow, there’s no hand rail, there’s a rope, just something to hold on to while you climb. The air catches in your chest as you just keep climbing and then miraculously, you’re at the top. The whole of Vatican City and its gardens are visible and beyond that the city of Rome stretches out. It’s an indescribably beautiful view. The red roofs of Europe…

  1. The Colosseum

I went out with a friend I met here one evening and while he walked me to the train we passed a point in Piazza Venezia with a clean shot of the Colosseum. It was the first time I had seen it on this trip, I grabbed his arm “Colloseo!” I exclaimed. He stared at me as if wanting to ask whether I knew I was in Rome. I didn’t care, it was twilight and the old structure stood there, magnificently, the last daylight silhouetting it against the evening sky. It looked almost “pink”.

I have never been in here and I’m still not sure I want to enter. It’s so touristed that I’m not sure if I want to join the crowds. I was 12 years old the first time I watched the film Gladiator and probably 8 when I started reading the roman myths and legends. Now I’m here, and the reality is hot, sweaty, expensive and crowded.

From my current room (the shared one) the nearest Metro station to the city centre is the Colosseum.  I get to see it almost every day and some days, unfortunately, I don’t even look. I just walk, other times I stare watching it and the people around it. The tourists, they don’t look “happy”.

  1. Trevi fountain

Did this with mum while she was still in town. It’s an incredible sight. I also came here with an Italian friend. He wanted to tell me that the Roman Catholic Priests live in the house behind the fountain. His English and my Italian is rather bad, but we still communicate. Being unable to find the word for “priest” or “reverend father” we ended up concluding that the “Piccolo Pappas” (tiny Popes) live there. I’m still laughing about that one.

  1. Pantheon

In front of the Pantheon there is a man, his dirty blond hair tied back into a bun. He sits under an umbrella, which is tied to his bicycle. And he plays the most beautiful cello music. His bicycle has been adjusted for his lifestyle, it has a place for his cello and umbrella, he cycles to the pantheon, and starts playing.

I heard the music and followed it, when I found the source, I sat down on the steps in front of the obelisk facing the pantheon to listen to him play. Most people just milled around him, some paused for a few seconds, maybe minutes, but I sat. Next to me a young man sat down as a new song started, he closed his eyes and listened. I could feel the droplets of sweet running down my back. The song finished after 6 minutes and the young man opened his eyes, he had listened and then left. I stayed for another.

The pantheon itself is incredible, the floor is almost 2000 years old and the walls are (correct me if I’m wrong) 5m thick. It’s this amazing, ancient monument.

I’m going to write this here too: 5 years ago near the Pantheon I had an amazing pasta dish and I couldn’t remember the name of the place. I could remember how to walk there from the Pantheon. So, this time I went back. I ordered the same food and it was different. Not just the food, but me. I hadn’t known Italian food or different food or excellent restaurant food the last time I had ordered that, now I have cooked Jamie Oliver for 2 years. I loved it, it was delicious, but not that amazing dish I remembered. I felt a little melancholy as I ate my delicious lunch. Everything continues to change.


  1. Gelato

I have one cup of gelato every day. It’s not ice cream, but for those who don’t know Italy or Gelato, ice cream is a close enough comparison. A small cup comes with two flavours, I have been trying to try all the different flavors while I’m here although I’m not entirely sure that’s possible. I have told the waiters to surprise me and give me any two flavors they like, I have gone back and ordered the exact same combination, I have tried new things and re-did old ones. Gelato is incredible.

One of my favourite Gelateria is next to Piazza Navona, which is a 30 min walk from the Colosseum. I walked here and started chatting with a group of American exchange students. They were waiting for the pizza place next door to open. They ended up inviting me to join and I had a perfect pizza. Thin and crispy with just enough cheese and not too much basil.


  1. Piazza Navona

5 years ago, when I came to Europe for the first time in my life, our apartment was right next to Piazza Navona. On my very first morning of my very first European trip, this was the very first place I saw. I wanted to come back, not because it was a famous landmark, but because it was my memory of Rome. It felt “smaller”, it wasn’t, but my journeys have tweaked me and suddenly Piazza Navona with its 4 river gods (who are still gorgeously beautiful) seemed to have shrunk. But not in a bad way.


  1. The garden of oranges for sunset

This was “wow”. The first time I came here was during the day, it has beautiful view of the city and this time the view included the Vatican which seemed to “complete” the picture. The garden was created in 1497. I sat here, a guy on a guitar played to tourists and people took selfies. It was quiet and peaceful and calm. There was a constant foot traffic, but people seemed to relax when they came here, seeing the view stopped the haste of the tourism.

I also brought Mum here and on that day, we also saw the keyhole which has a perfect shot of the Vatican.

One evening after having a pizza dinner with mum I met an American backpacker and we came up here to watch the sunset. It was more beautiful than I could have expected. We were late, seeing that I asked, “shall we gun it?” one look later we started running towards the view. It was wonderful sitting on a 500year old wall with a friend and watching something beautiful. The view changed every few seconds. And at one moment, all the birds started flying, the temperature must have dropped, but suddenly the sky was pink and grey dotted with specks of birds. It was a good night.

I repeated this tonight and it took my breath away again.


  1. Walk over the bridge of angels

I went out for Pizza with a friend. I took him to the pizza place the exchange students had introduced me to. I found it ironic to have a Pakistani friend in Rome. I had travelled from Dubai to meet another mid-eastern person here, but it was good. After pizza, we wondered through the old cobble stone streets, googled and found a good pub for a drink. The evening ended by walking to the train station. The station was on the other side of the bridge.

I walked over it explain the angles to my friend. Each angel holds something related to Jesus on the cross, the thorn crown, the spear, the sponge with vinegar, the nails, the cross, and more. It’s all there and it’s beautiful. Horrid but gorgeous.


  1. Campo de fiori – nice square, use to have executions.

A square in which people lost their lives is now used as a location of a food market. I’m not sure why 3 different people told me to come here. It was nice, but not unique.


Then there were moments that happen if you don’t stick to a list:

Behind the apartment, me and Mum had during the first 2 weeks here, I strolled around and found a view of the Tiber river. It wasn’t the most beautiful view of it, but it was “mine”. I sat down on the wall and nearby a guy was playing on his guitar. After a while he stopped, I exclaimed in almost a whisper, not wanting to ruin the moment, “you can’t stop, you are the atmosphere”. He didn’t speak enough English to understand me, but my comment made him talk to me. He told me that he would be playing in the plaza at 9h that evening.

I went down later and spend the evening with him and his friends. I felt as as though I was living something from Eat, Pray, Love. It felt like something Elizabeth Gilbert would write. His friends turned up, they smoked and drank Peroni beer and offered me some. They laughed and spoke Italian and my friend played guitar.

At some point I was offered food, I put my hand into the white paper bag and retrieved a small ball. I tried to ask what it was using my limited Italian, it was “olive ascolane” and it was delicious. It was an olive stuffed with ground beef, wrapped in bread crumbs. I sat there, eating it, drinking my beer, listening to the music and the language, looking at the full moon and it was good.

One of the guys decided to “flirt” with me. He used Google translate to help him, the next thing I heard was the google translate electronic voice saying, “Let’s go for a ride” – I wanted to burst out laughing, but I managed to only giggle and say no. It was a good night.


One evening my roommate invited me to join her, her boyfriend and his brother. It took a little while before I understood what she was saying, at first, I thought she was saying that her boyfriend was her brother, then I thought she said her boyfriend was like a brother to her. Finally google translate came to the rescue and I figured out her boyfriend had a brother.

The four of us spent a nice time together, but they did not speak English. I enjoy speaking Italian, but it gets tiring to think about everything you say, trying to find the simplest English terms to use. I ended up coming home early.

My roommate brought me dinner that night. She couldn’t tell me what it was or where she had bought it, but I loved it. It didn’t matter that I was full or that it was 1am, all that mattered was that this folded bread (which resembled a calzone) was filled with what I gathered was “bacon and potato” but it couldn’t be that, it must have been special in a way, it was creamy and it melted in my mouth.

I took another bite, it was creamy and chewy and delicious. All that mattered was that I closed my eyes and tasted what I was eating. It melted and filled me up, but it wasn’t heavy. It was gorgeous. I asked her where she bought it and the google translate voice answered, “it is where I eat my boyfriend”. I chocked and laughed and kept eating.


The melting monks: I was in the city centre, feeling a little sleepy. I found a quiet corner and decided to close my eyes there, sitting with my back resting against a building I closed my eyes.

The footsteps made me open them again, walking by were about 6 or 7 catholic monks, they were young men, dressed in black robes, one was wearing a floppy sun hat. It was a hot day for Rome, maybe 38C. I could see them sweating, the one with the hat was red-faced, they seemed to be melting, but kept walking.

I started giggling at the sight. The man at the back noticed me and it was as though he saw what I was seeing and also grinned, a moment shared between two strangers. I closed my eyes again and rested for 20minutes.


In Dubai, many people greet with a kiss, but it doesn’t always seem natural. Here it feels normal, the first person who told me “ciao” just kissed both my cheeks in an almost unthinking way. It wasn’t hesitant or paused, it was so normal that I enjoyed it.


One of the best things I remember eating in Rome was a “crème croissant” a croissant filled with custard. I went down to the café, but they were sold out, via google translate I was told that the second batch was in the oven, but I couldn’t figure out what time they would be finished.

That evening I went back, me and the waiter both got exhausted trying to communicate without language. He ended up “reserving” me a croissant for the next day. I walked in the next morning and ordered a coffee. *Clink* a plate was placed in front of me bearing one crème croissant. It seems the waiter who had reserved my croissant had told his girlfriend about it. I walk in and ‘bam’ croissant. I am happy here. I smile more than I’m used to.


Aperitivo means Happy Hour in Italian. Going for happy hour “it is must” according to my oldest Italian friends whom I’ve known for 4 years. Spritz is an Italian drink (to my knowledge). It’s condoti, with wine and soda water, it’s red and bitter and wonderful. I’ve had this previously, but last night I went to a new place.

I ordered a spritz and the guy asked if I wanted “Aperitivo” or only spritz. “what’s the difference?” he pointed and tried to explain in English and finally I said “aaahh, it comes with snacks?” he got this glint in his eyes at the way I pronounced “snacks”. I ordered it and was not disappointed.

My one drink came with chips (UK: crisps), a tiny bowl of black rice, one filled with white rice, a tiny pizza, something that must have been a slice of calzone or something similar, and more food that I didn’t know.

At one point, I had the bearded waiter explain everything on the table to me, his earring glinting in the light as he shook his head trying to find the words. Later, I picked up my food, walked to the counter and asked the pixie-like waitress what I was eating. It turned out to be “pizza classico” (bread with tomato sauce, NO cheese). It was a good evening. As I left the café he called after me “ciao Bella”.


I live right next to the train station at the moment. The sound doesn’t bother me, but early in the mornings, the first trains always tell me that a new day has started. An almost melancholy feeling. I fall asleep again, but the sound is always there.


I had an incredible lunch yesterday, fresh pasta (it tastes different than the stuff in the packages) with a truffle sauce, mushrooms and some ground pork. I just sat there, savoring every bite and every sip of wine.

While walking home a guy started talking to me in very fast Italian. I went back to the same restaurant today, the food was just so good. I walked home, passed the homeless tent, the flower stand, and the fruit stall.

Walked in to the same guy on my way home and told him “arrivederci” (goodbye). A minute or two later I heard him call after me again, I turned to see what he wanted now. He was running after me with a red rose. He has just bought it at the flower stall, gave it to me, we greeted with a kiss on each cheek and left. I stood there, momentarily frozen and rather surprised. All I could say was “mille grazie” (thank you very much). I was pleasantly surprised and then I continued walking on my own.



“The traveler was active; he went strenuously in search of people, of adventure, of experience. The tourist is passive; he expects interesting things to happen to him. He goes ‘sight-seeing.'” – Daniel J. Boorstin
I have rarely read a quote I disagree with more. If you want to say that there are two deffinitions, one for tourist and one for travelers, I would define them in the exact opposite manner.
The tourist is strenuously walking from sight to sight, following a list, a plan and in some cases a guide. Hoping for adventure and searching for experience.
The traveler (as I like to define myself) is relaxed. It was not strenuous to start talking to the guitarist while sitting on the wall next to the river. It came naturally. It was not strenuous to ask the guy at the next table whether he wanted to climb up to the Garden of Oranges, it just flowed.
It was not strenuous, none of it was difficult or hard or bad, conversations just started, because as a traveler I was not in a rush to sight see, I had time to be distracted, time to get lost, meet people, listen to music. I did not have an agenda, a plan, a guide.
The tourists sat on their tour buses awaiting excitement, while I dashed into a cafe to brush my teeth in the bathroom downstairs.
The tourist and the traveler are defined differently in my mind. But do not judge the other, ever.
The tourist does go sightseeing, yes, but in my mind it is an active and strenuous thing to do. The traveler is the passive one, the one who has time to let adventure find him.
In Harry Potter, Dumbledore says “Let us step into the night and pursue that flighty temptress, Adventure”.
The traveler does pursue adventure, but in a relaxed manner. Be a traveler not a tourist, if you have the choice.

I am the girl who reads

I found this piece today and instead of sharing my thoughts on it, I’m just gonna share it.


Charles Warnke wrote:

Date a girl who doesn’t read. Find her in the weary squalor of a Midwestern bar. Find her in the smoke, drunken sweat, and varicolored light of an upscale nightclub. Wherever you find her, find her smiling. Make sure that it lingers when the people that are talking to her look away. Engage her with unsentimental trivialities. Use pick-up lines and laugh inwardly.
Take her outside when the night overstays its welcome. Ignore the palpable weight of fatigue. Kiss her in the rain under the weak glow of a streetlamp because you’ve seen it in film. Remark at its lack of significance. Take her to your apartment. Dispatch with making love. Fuck her.
Let the anxious contract you’ve unwittingly written evolve slowly and uncomfortably into a relationship. Find shared interests and common ground like sushi, and folk music. Build an impenetrable bastion upon that ground. Make it sacred. Retreat into it every time the air gets stale, or the evenings get long. Talk about nothing of significance. Do little thinking. Let the months pass unnoticed. Ask her to move in. Let her decorate. Get into fights about inconsequential things like how the fucking shower curtain needs to be closed so that it doesn’t fucking collect mold. Let a year pass unnoticed. Begin to notice.
Figure that you should probably get married because you will have wasted a lot of time otherwise. Take her to dinner on the forty-fifth floor at a restaurant far beyond your means. Make sure there is a beautiful view of the city. Sheepishly ask a waiter to bring her a glass of champagne with a modest ring in it. When she notices, propose to her with all of the enthusiasm and sincerity you can muster. Do not be overly concerned if you feel your heart leap through a pane of sheet glass. For that matter, do not be overly concerned if you cannot feel it at all. If there is applause, let it stagnate. If she cries, smile as if you’ve never been happier. If she doesn’t, smile all the same.
Let the years pass unnoticed. Get a career, not a job. Buy a house. Have two striking children. Try to raise them well. Fail, frequently. Lapse into a bored indifference. Lapse into an indifferent sadness. Have a mid-life crisis. Grow old. Wonder at your lack of achievement. Feel sometimes contented, but mostly vacant and ethereal. Feel, during walks, as if you might never return, or as if you might blow away on the wind. Contract a terminal illness. Die, but only after you observe that the girl who didn’t read never made your heart oscillate with any significant passion, that no one will write the story of your lives, and that she will die, too, with only a mild and tempered regret that nothing ever came of her capacity to love.
Do those things, because nothing sucks worse than a girl who reads. Do it, I say, because a life in purgatory is better than a life in hell. Do it, because a girl who reads possesses a vocabulary that can describe that amorphous discontent as a life unfulfilled—a vocabulary that parses the innate beauty of the world and makes it an accessible necessity instead of an alien wonder. A girl who reads lays claim to a vocabulary that distinguishes between the specious and soulless rhetoric of someone who cannot love her, and the inarticulate desperation of someone who loves her too much. A vocabulary, god damnit, that makes my vacuous sophistry a cheap trick.
Do it, because a girl who reads understands syntax. Literature has taught her that moments of tenderness come in sporadic but knowable intervals. A girl who reads knows that life is not planar; she knows, and rightly demands, that the ebb comes along with the flow of disappointment. A girl who has read up on her syntax senses the irregular pauses—the hesitation of breath—endemic to a lie. A girl who reads perceives the difference between a parenthetical moment of anger and the entrenched habits of someone whose bitter cynicism will run on, run on well past any point of reason, or purpose, run on far after she has packed a suitcase and said a reluctant goodbye and she has decided that I am an ellipsis and not a period and run on and run on. Syntax that knows the rhythm and cadence of a life well lived.
Date a girl who doesn’t read because the girl who reads knows the importance of plot. She can trace out the demarcations of a prologue and the sharp ridges of a climax. She feels them in her skin. The girl who reads will be patient with an intermission and expedite a denouement. But of all things, the girl who reads knows most the ineluctable significance of an end. She is comfortable with them. She has bid farewell to a thousand heroes with only a twinge of sadness.
Don’t date a girl who reads because girls who read are the storytellers. You with the Joyce, you with the Nabokov, you with the Woolf. You there in the library, on the platform of the metro, you in the corner of the café, you in the window of your room. You, who make my life so god damned difficult. The girl who reads has spun out the account of her life and it is bursting with meaning. She insists that her narratives are rich, her supporting cast colorful, and her typeface bold. You, the girl who reads, make me want to be everything that I am not. But I am weak and I will fail you, because you have dreamed, properly, of someone who is better than I am. You will not accept the life that I told of at the beginning of this piece. You will accept nothing less than passion, and perfection, and a life worthy of being storied. So out with you, girl who reads. Take the next southbound train and take your Hemingway with you. I hate you. I really, really, really hate you.

Shared Moroccan bath

Well, adventure has many definitions, but this is a new one: I went to a beauty salon.

RAK has many salons, which operate in Arabic, so I don’t even find them on Google. While waiting for my driving license class to start I got to talking with a  French speaking lady from Morocco who finally understood my french and gave me the number of a salon.

I booked an appointment rather clumsily, my Arabic being non-existent and the person on the other side of the phone having almost no English.

Yesterday I arrived at the salon, which was unlike any other I’ve ever been in. The sheer size surprised me. Half the salon seemed to be for hairdressing, an entire room was dedicated to henna tattoos, next to it was a room filled with nail polish and pedicure chairs. Next to that was a room with a massage table. I arrived 10min early for my appointment and was “signaled” to wait. An Arabic speaking lady just kept patting the chair next to her telling me to wait.

My appointment started on time, which was surprising, because I have experienced that the mid-eastern definition of time may be very different from my own ideas. I was lead into a steam room and was soon accompanied by another young lady from the mid-east, apparently this was a shared Moroccan bath. Right then.

The therapist covered both of us with a funky colored herbal mask which contained cinnamon, ginger and cardamom The other ingredients I couldn’t even guess. The smell told me that it was herbs, but the brownish yellow color reminded me horribly of the feces covered torture victim whose picture I had studied last semester.

We were left to sit in the steam on small plastic chairs for about 10minutes. I had never hung out with any of my friends wearing no clothes and covered in herbs. Then 2 therapists came in and started scrubbing both of us. I noticed the bodies, in an odly objective way, I have been holding myself to American actress and model standards even though I know it’s wrong. Here is was with 3 other women and we all had rolls and thighs and were human.

My therapist spoke no English, but wanted to know what my tattoo meant. It’s jus thte word “LOVE”, so I used my hands to make a heart and she understood. A universal symbol for love, and so many other things are so culturally bound…

The second body mask intrigued me, it smelled edible, it was pink I liked it. I kept sniffing my hand trying to discern the smell until the other lady’s therapist said “chocolate”. It was cocoa, that was the smell! My hair was covered in the most moisturizing mask and then I was done.

I had my nails painted by a black women from West Africa and my newly scrubbed skin seemed to radiate it’s whiteness after all the course skin had been removed. I think I was the only “white” person in that whole place. The lady who had shared the Moroccan bath with me had said she had never seen a Western person in a Moroccan bath.

I’ve only heard stories of communal beauty treatments, living it was different, but nice.

A shared bath – an adventure.


Dubai was on a different continent, I had to adapt, there was no way of kind of living in South Africa and kind of living in Dubai. Ras Al Khaimah (RAK) is different, Dubai is a bus ride away. It takes time to get there but I don’t have to fully live in RAK even though I don’t really live in Dubai anymore. The thing is, I want to adapt, I want to live in RAK. It’s cool if I have to go to Dubai, but that should be for “Dubai-specific” things. Adapting to Dubai, finding new food, new wash cloths, new coffee, it all added and I ended up learning a lot, meeting people and building a life there. I want to do that here was well.


*No original names were used.

Currently writing from a small Danish village just outside of Aarhus where I’m visiting some of my oldest friends. I met up with Anna, my best friend from South Africa, in Copenhagen and we took a bus to her hometown where I will be spending the next 6 weeks with her parents.

I enjoyed spending time with her and her boyfriend. They are an easy couple to hang out with. I planned on studying the first day, but having them watch a movie and the cat relaxing in the sun mixed with my holiday mood and sleepiness didn’t put me in a very productive work mood. Watching Shrek on the couch seemed much better. I tried diligently to focus on my studies, though. Anna and her bf left late that afternoon and it was only me and Lena, Anna’s mum, at home that evening.

It was a nice quiet evening with the fire crackling merely in the corner. Their home is a cozy place with a fire on the one side and a piano in the corner. Today the home was filled with lovely classical music, because Paul, Lena’s husband, was home.

The sun only rises at 8:30, long after Lena leaves for work. The sunrise creates pink clouds allow the dark pine trees to create dark silhouettes against the early morning sky. I worked for a while in the silent house and then decided to cycle to the store. I was lucky, just as I attempted and failed to mount the bicycle (for 5 or 10 whole minutes!) Paul came home and adjusted the seat for my height. I hadn’t been on a bicycle in 4 years and couldn’t believe that I was now riding one in the Scandinavian winter!

Today would be day 3. I have my studies here, so I am working, got some momentum going while also experiencing a new culture and exploring the tiny harbor town in which they live along with the forest next to their home. Just before lunch I looked up and spotted an animal in the garden. At first I thought it might be a dog, but then I realized it might be something else. I walked to the study and asked Paul about it. It was a deer, the first ever deer I’d seen! He came to the living area where there were big windows and explained to me which kind of deer it was pointing out the fur on the horns.

That afternoon Paul and I walked to the store in town and home again. It took almost 2hours, but I enjoyed it. He gave me some pointers, showing me the way to the store, explaining where I could find different stuff in town. The scenery was lovely, I am not use to pine trees, wooden homes or any of it, really. So, for me just going to the store is an experience and everything made an impact.

I’m currently listening to some Laurika Rauch music from South Africa. Such a weird combination, but seeing as I met my Danish friends in South Africa the two cultures seem to go together in my mind. Kurt Darren makes me giggle now, I grew up on his music in a way and listening to it now, it seems so South African. Some of the songs take me back, back to dancing in South Africa or days spent in the kitchen in Bloemfontein.

My 30min muffin recipe took almost 5 hours today. I struggled to get on the bicycle again today (second time cycling). I rode the bike into a bush and then into tree – thankfully not breaking it but laughing myself silly. The phrase “it’s just like riding a bike” got a new perspective, because cycling isn’t all that easy! Once I was on I was fine, it’s the starting that I struggle with. I went to the store, found an English speaking lady, bought everything I needed for the muffins and I’m cooking dinner tomorrow evening, so I bought everything I needed for that as well.

Got home and started on the muffins, realized i needed cream, but decided to mix the rest of the ingredients to make sure i had everything, which turned to be a good idea. I had purchased gluten free oats, not gluten-free flour that morning. Somehow, I went to the store 3 times today! but I now have muffins and dinner and next time it will go much quicker, cause I’m also learning to navigate the new store.

After leaving the store I thought I’d take a quick exploratory cycle. It was beautiful, I didn’t go all the way to the next village, but I could see it lying next to the bay in the distance. After a while I came back home and finally got the muffins in the oven!

The house feels strangely quiet tonight, I’m home alone. Paul headed North this morning and Lena is working late, so I’m all home alone, except that I’m not “home”, this is still only a house to me. I know it’ll change soon enough though. The cat kept me company tonight, purring while I read Wild.

It’s Friday today and this evening I cooked traditional South African meal, Bobotie, using my mum’s old Kook en Geniet recipe book that I have here with me. It took longer than anticipated, but it came out delicious. I had a headache most of the day, though. The Kook en Geniet had been in our old home in South Africa, a friend of mine in Bloemfontein, Jade, went to pick it up and gave it to Lena who packed it in while they were visiting South Africa and then I finally got it when I arrived in Denmark…

The weekend passed quietly and quickly, it’s a new week today, feels odd starting a week on Monday again. I’ve been adjusted to the mid-eastern culture of having my week Sunday to Thursday. I got through more work than I anticipated this morning, so I took the bicycle to town to explore. It was a nice afternoon in the tiny town. I wasn’t sure of my way, so pushed the bicycle along, leaving it in front of the various shops I went into.

Every shop had a little bell that tinkled when I went in and out. I bought some souvenirs, but not much. I also found boots at the vintage clothing store. This would be the first time I bought something from a vintage store.

I’m rather tired tonight, everything around me provides such a great impact. Going to town is an experience, everything takes more than I expect it to. Lena is cooking dinner tonight, soup I think. I made chicken last night and the left overs will last me through out this week for lunches. Really convenient in my mind.

Every evening I help lay the table, we have a family style meal together and then Paul and Lena would watch handball, . I didn’t really get into the game while I was here, but they seem to enjoy it. I have tried to watch it, sitting on the couch with them and the cat. The match in which Qatar won against Germany was the only one I truly watched and followed.

The weather is great, I am told. The wind is quiet and the temperature is around 6C, today there was actually sunlight, not just daylight. It was dry outside so Paul suggested I open my bedroom windows to allow some fresh air to come in. Other days it’s damp and an open window wouldn’t be the best idea.

Yesterday was Wednesday, 25 January, exactly 2 weeks since I got on the plane to Denmark. Anna came to visit and we went cycling together. I fell behind pretty quickly, but I was doing it (reminding myself of Monica in FRIENDS). We went for some Irish coffee and then returned home to study.

That evening Lena and I went to this informal choir singing at Sostrup Slot, an old castle. It reminded me very much of some scenes from the film As It Is In Heaven. You don’t have to be good at singing, but you can go and sing just for the fun of it. I haven’t sung in years, although in high school I was in the choir. The songs were beautiful and I had fun singing them.

Studying is a big part of my days. I am working on 3 major assignments while I’m here, the first one is about controversial adverts. The sunset is 16:30 at the moment, so I try to go out before sunset, not wanting to get lost without light. Today I went cycling through the forest and without realizing it I went much further than intended.

I enjoyed the scenery cycling still further away from home, suddenly my phone rang. It was Hano, Anna’s brother, calling about something he needed from home. It was really good he called, it made me turn around sooner then I intended and only then did I realize how far I had come and also that I wasn’t entirely sure which road would take me home. I ended up cycling passed the shortcut home and found Netto, the supermarket. Once I found Netto I knew how to get home the long way, though. I followed the tar road and was really glad to find my way on it. My little exploration was almost 90min maybe 2hours. It was beautiful though and my legs are getting stronger.

I took the bus to Aarhus on Friday afternoon, Anna picked me up and we went to get some Arabic food for dinner. The decent kind, better than those I’ve found in Dubai until now, ironically! Saturday morning Anna was working, so I explored Aarhus, saw almost everything the city had to offer. The city center is a small area, but nice there. I enjoyed walking around Stroget and the Latin quarter along with the other major tourist attractions.

Anna and I had arranged to meet up later for dinner. It had started getting rather cold and dark, so I had taken refuge in a pizza place waiting for her to finish her shift. I sat there reading Wild until the manager came to ask me to just move to the bar, seeing as the place was getting busy and I was only having a drink at a table for four… Soon after that I got a text and we went for dinner having traditional Danish food at a street food market which offered almost anything, including a booth for Grilled Cheese, which puzzled both of us, because it wasn’t connected to a country in anyway.

Anna and I walked around town Sunday morning after a late breakfast, but almost everything was closed. She showed me the campus and the harbor along with other parts of the city I hadn’t gone to the previous day. I took a bus back to Lena and Paul’s place early in the afternoon. It had been a good weekend, watching FRIENDS with Anna, hanging out and exploring the city alone and together.

I got home to find Lena had done laundry and sorted through all my socks, so nice. She thanked me for vacuuming before leaving. I had thought about studying in a different country, perhaps Thailand, but I don’t know how it would be without knowing people and being unable to speak the language. It’s nice, studying abroad in a way, but also having people I know here… Waiting for Anna, talking to Lena, walking with Paul – it all adds and you have somebody to help you navigate the new place.

This morning, 31 Jan, I read something about which character is the worst FRIENDS character. You could find something wrong with all of them if you wanted, but I guess that that’s the reason why the show is loved. People love the idea that they can be loved and have friends, despite being imperfect.

Walking around the tiny town yesterday I found my way around very easily. I have been to town quite a few times, but yesterday I took a left turn and found some connecting streets. I could hear Luke Danes from Gilmore Girls saying “you take 3 left turns and you’re back in the center of town!” It’s almost impossible to get lost here, though I have.

Despite the friendliness of everybody around me, I felt a little home sick the other evening. I had just returned from Aarhus, but I hadn’t come “home” I had come to Lena and Paul’s home. I missed my home somehow, but then again this place does feel like home in a way. I have been so welcome here.

I cooked dinner last night, chicken stew, Hano and a friend joined me and Lena. Today I studied pages of history, war atrocities and hatred, xenophobia. The whole day I was thinking about President Trump and the history of sovereign leaders. I decided to have lunch in town far away from my books to give my mind a break. So I took the bicycle (which I can now ride with confidence!) and went to a cafe for lunch. The waiter spoke English and I enjoyed myself my listening to an audio book which snacking on some nachos. After coming home I turned on the dishwasher and the laundry machine.

The town is a beautiful place, little shops line the cobblestone streets, wood and white paint make up many of the places, the church is tiny, but picturesque. The bell tower rising high into the grey sky with a large tree on the right hand side. I approached the front door, but found it shut. A side door was open and I entered. The place was very quiet, and I wondered if it was still in use. I knelt down and prayed. Cycling back was freezing, but beautiful.

On the way home I pass tall pine trees just like in the postcard pictures. There are no streetlights here, so when I went to put out the trash, the whole world was dark and completely silent. I’ve become so use to lights and distant sounds, it seemed odd to walk outside and find myself in pitch black. I liked it though.

I was surprised on Friday to realize that it an entire week had passed since I’d taken the buss to visit Anna. Lena and I drove to Aarhus on Saturday morning to visit Hano for brunch and Anna joined us.

Lena, Anna and I spent the day in Aarhus. We walked passed the music hall and they decided to pass through it so I could see the very nice building. Upon arriving we found that a free flute concert would be taking place and decided to stay. The music, felt a little chaotic with most pieces seeming un-harmonic, but I would see that it was good and beautiful even if it wasn’t my taste or beyond my current comprehension.

Our late lunch or very early dinner comprised yet again of street food. According to Anna these street food markets are rather popular in Denmark. I was rather happy when we walked passed a building which I recognized as the main train station and I suddenly recognized where I was. I knew if we turned left we would find Stroget and the churches. Having a sense of direction was great.

It was a misty day, Lena and I drove home in dense mist. The street lamps and traffic lights all creating weird shadowy effects. Creating halos and shimmering strangely in the cold night. I was happy to reach home, the road had been odd, unable to see more than a few meters ahead.

Weekend mornings we have breakfast together around 9am. The table is laid with jam and cheese and bread and butter and juice and coffee and boiled eggs and salt and pepper and salami and fig roll and milk. It’s nice to have a family style breakfast with them, it’s lovely to be this included.

Yesterday, Sunday 5 February, I went cycling after breakfast and saw a group of deer. I made such a racket when getting off the bicycle to take a picture that when I looked up they vanished in the few seconds I located my phone’s camera. Being in a place with deer along the way is something though.

It started snowing and I went for a walk in the flurry this afternoon, I felt like I was walking in a snow globe, the white snow falling against the towering pine trees. I was so fascinated by the snow I took extra long walking to town. It was the first time I actually focused on a snow flake, I’d never before realized they actually do make those spiky beautiful patterns, it’s not just Disney’s idea of how a snow flake looks.

This morning the air looked restless, snow swirling around everywhere. Dusting the un-moving pine trees temporarily. Lena had told me to keep the fire going it was -1 outside with the added chill factor of the wind which Paul said could make it feel like -15!

I’m having left over mac and cheese for lunch, made it for dinner last night. Lena had never had it before and I made the Jamie Oliver version of it. I Skyped with a South African friend last night while cooking. It was nice to catch up. I also Skyped with Jade which was fun, Paul knows her and the three of us spent a few minutes on Skype together. I am not addicted to social media, but it is so relevant for my current lifestyle. Without it I would have very little contact with many of the people in my life.

The ground is just dusted with a thin layer of snow at the moment, the wind making a soft sound as it moves through the trees and my study books are looking accusingly at me while I watch FRIENDS and ignore my assignment.

The snow has persisted and now a thin layer has formed on the ground. The whole world has turned white around me. I keep staring at the flakes on my sleeves, they all seem so beautiful. Today I had to force myself to actually keep walking to the store, not just stand around and look at the flakes. I had to keep walking so I would not freeze and make it home before sunset when the temperature would drop and the light would fade. The daylight hours have now increased by almost 2 hours in the past month. Yes, I have been here an entire month!

I completed Wild and now I am in need of a new book. I really enjoyed the book, but while reading it I started having some serious doubts about hiking the PCT or the Camino de Santiago. The idea of hiking a serious distance has intrigued me for quite some time. The book just shone some light on the reality of the pain.

Thursday, 9 February, the snow had made a nice white layer covering everything. Paul suggested some preventative snow shoveling. This was something I’ve never done before, neither had I ever seen it. I put on my snow boots, Paul handed me some gloves and a broom, he took the shovel. After a while we switched, clearing the driveway so Lena could get home later. I fell in the snow and later slipped on the ice, thus achieving two cold weather blunders in the same day. Good plan.

My studies aren’t going as well as I hoped. I am working everyday, but my current business assignment is some of the hardest stuff I’ve yet to do. Part of the problem is that my textbook was more than a month late, so I haven’t covered all the work. This meant that I was rather pleased when it was weekend.

Currently sitting on the back porch at home, the sky is a clear blue, the wind rather chilly and the snow is covering most of the grass leaving patches of green. The sun coming through while there is still snow creates a beautiful light.

I spent the weekend in Aarhus with Anna. We had a good time and I replaced my lost gloves with lovely new red leather gloves. This would be the last weekend I would be visiting her. My time here is running out and seeming to not move at the same time.

I was sitting outside writing this and my hands became so cold that the laptop’s touchpad couldn’t register my touch! Have now relocated and am sitting inside with the cat and the fire, much better.

Today, Sunday, I spent some time in Aarhus. I really wanted to visit Marselisborg, but couldn’t manage it. Firstly it was so cold I wasn’t sure if it would be wise to go to a park, then I got lost, after that I couldn’t find the bus stop which would take me to Marselisborg. Finally I got Chinese take-out and hopped on the bus home, Lena picked me up at the bus station. She had also dropped me off there the previous day. I really appreciate their kindness.

Before taking me to the bus stop Saturday morning Lena took some pictures of me in the snow. We had our leisurely breakfast at the table, the cat seemed unable to decide whether it wanted to be inside or outside or if it might just be hungry. Lena took her phone and we went into the backyard so I could have some snow photos. She was right, when I returned the next day much of it had vanished.

I got back to Lena and Paul’s home this afternoon and went for a walk to the store. I walk this path almost daily, some times cycling it. It’s a small, but level, dirt track that runs through the forest to the one direction and through trees and past homes in the direction of the Netto store. I love walking to the store. You can hear the wind rustling through the trees and the birds singing. I haven’t been on the bicycle since the snow, I’m shaky enough walking on snow and driving a cycle on dry ground, but I didn’t want to combine ice and cycling just yet.

As I was walking to Netto I passed a dad and his two young sons. The one son, probably 9years old, was holding an axe and chopping wood. I can’t remember ever seeing somebody chop something, I have no memories of people holding axes and here was this little boy learning to chop fire wood.

This morning I woke to find the whole world white. Everything was covered with frost. The birds were singing. Paul and I walked to the store yesterday afternoon and I picked up some stuff for dinner. He pointed out some of the birds to me, with the temperatures rising the birds are coming back.

I made a Jamie Oliver salad for dinner and started on my new book, The Blade Itself by Joe Abercrombie. I’ve never even heard of this author, but the girl at the store loves Lord of the Rings and she recommended this… So, I’m hoping to fall in love with the new story and new characters.

2 weeks ago as Lena and I were driving to have brunch at Hano’s she mentioned something about having a dinner on Saturday, the 18th. It took me over a week to realize that it was in fact a dinner to celebrate my birthday! Every body would be coming home, cause I was here.

Anna arrived Friday afternoon and on Saturday everybody else was here. Lena baked me a traditional Danish birthday “Troll” made from cinnamon rolls. I’d seen her serve it many times in South Africa whenever there was a birthday. I received my first batch of birthday presents in the form of Licorice and chocolate for bread that afternoon.

Paul cooked delicious lamb for dinner and they sang the Danish version of happy birthday for me. I received my second batch of presents which included some nice socks, marzipan chocolate and a cute sign. I felt rather silly when my “melk tert” (milk tart), a traditional South African dessert, ended up with most of the filling on the floor. Luckily the rest was still relatively edible. It was one of my favorite birthdays, having the whole family here was so nice. I also got a chance to meet Hano’s girlfriend.

My time is suddenly running out very quickly, it’s Sunday evening as I’m writing this and next Saturday I will be on a plane leaving all this behind me. I was thinking back over the past year earlier. I spent Summer in New York, the fall in London and winter in Denmark. Quite curious about where I will be in Spring! Although I do have a rather nice home in Ras Al Khaimah as well.

I’m not sure how much I’m going to see of the town this week, my last week. I have to catch up with my studies. Due to many things, I’m behind on my reading, so hoping that once I catch up with that my assignment will automatically become easier. I’d rather miss out on a few days in Denmark than have to repeat this subject later this year. Really hoping to see Anna one last time this week.

The sunset rise and sunset times have changed drastically since I’ve arrived. The temperature is now in the plus degrees sometimes. The sunset use to be around 16pm and today it will be 17:26, which means I can go for a walk much later. I use to be uncertain about the time when I woke up not sure if it was still midnight or if it was morning and only dark outside. Now around 7am there’s a faint light when I look out the window.

As an aside, on the way to Aarhus, there is a field of Christmas trees. They have been chopped down, but the bottom parts are still there.

Wednesday evening me and Lena went to sing in the choir again, she even tipped off the director that it was my official birthday and the whole choir sang for me! I saw Anna for the last time Thursday, 23 Feb. It was sad in a non-tearful way to say bye. We went to a bookstore and I finally found The Perks of Being a Wallflower (incredible book btw). I got onto the bus and Anna stood next to my window in the snow waving at me till the bus left – one of my favorite memories.

Friday morning I packed my bags and that afternoon Paul and I walked to the village again, I decided to take one last stroll through the town, bought one last souvenir in the form of a powder blue thin sweater which I can also wear at home. I gave them a small farewell gift and thanked them for everything.

Suddenly it was Saturday 25 February, a day that had seemed so far away when I started planning this trip and it had seemed like a decent amount of time when I bought the plane tickets, but now I was sorry to leave, ready, but sorry. I went for a final walk through the forest, remembering it in the snow and re-seeing it in the morning light and enjoying it for a last time.

Lena and Paul drove me to the bus, I opened my book and started reading. I had said goodbye to Denmark that morning and was ready to fall into a fictional world until I reached home. I finished the book in the taxi on my way home. “Well, I’m back” [Sam] said – Lord of the Rings.

Copenhagen 2017

11 Jan – Arrival

Got into Copenhagen tonight. By 22h I was at the hostel and in bed. The only other occupant of the room was an elderly man who just kept staring at me. I unpacked my whistle and put it under my pillow, while a new girl entered the room. Later that evening 3 Irish girls came in to get ready for a night out clubbing. I finally fell asleep, but by 4:30 that morning the Irish girls returned. They came back waking up the entire dorm, not bothering to try and keep it down. One of them got into bed with her boyfriend in the bed just under mine. She was so stoned (to use her own words) that she just kept laughing and talking for quite a long time. The next morning I thought I’d handle it, ask them to keep it down and learn to cope. But as I sat on my bunk bed that evening hearing them plan their next excursion even after promising to keep it down I could hear that they didn’t comprehend or remember the racket they had made. I quite reluctantly went down to the reception and asked for a different room. This one was miraculously quiet, I got an entire night of really good sleep there.

The first day I had been so tired due to jetlag and the interrupted night so I wasn’t sure it really counted. I started my first day with buying a Danish sim card before going to find Rosenborg Castel, but I got there too early. Deciding that walking around would be nice I found an almost deserted café. Two really friendly Danish guys were working there and I chatted with them about the city, about what to do. They mentioned the same neighborhoods as my Danish friends had, but I was still interesting to talk to them and get their take on the city.

Rosenborg Castle was nice, but small. The whole city was smaller than I had anticipated actually. I walked from Rosenborg to Nyhavn. On my way I passed a department store, Magasin du Nord, which I had planned to find the next day. I also walked through/ passed some of the other stuff I had planned and thought would take much more time. It was nice to glimpse inside, but I didn’t spend much time there.

Nyhavn was pretty with all the different colored buildings, but it was so cold I didn’t spend much time outside. I ducked into a little café/ bar and ordered a drink just hiding from the cold for a little while. I liked the music they played.

I was fascinated by everybody on bicycles, and I do mean everybody. The other thing that I enjoyed was how friendly everybody was I don’t think even one person was even a little rude to me. The Danish accent pronounces things very differently so I had so trouble pronouncing the names of the places I wanted to see. Once people knew where I was headed they would always help me.

One morning I had butter chicken for breakfast. This was kind of accidentally, I had purchased food and I just picked up the top box and heated it. I found it rather weird to eat spicy food that early in the morning though, but at least I was full for the day. A few years ago I wouldn’t have understood the idea of a kitchen while travelling, why eat what your use to if you travel? Now I get it, it simplifies things, it helps you, having even one part of your life feel a little stable helps when you travel. Finding that cute non-touristed café takes time and the food might not be to your liking.

This day I also went to the Little Mermaid statue. Having heard that she was small I wasn’t disappointed, but it’s a pity there’s nothing else near her. It takes almost 30min to reach the statue and then you have to get back to the city center. She is pretty though, sitting there on her rock in the ocean with the boats in the background.

After seeing the little mermaid I decided to go and climb a tower, as I have done in every European city I have visited till now. I arrived too early for the tower at Christiansborg along with some other early tourists. A girl from Holland, Eva, asked me to take her picture and we ended up hanging out that morning. We climbed the tower together and were then heading in the same direction. After walking up the spiral tower together we spit up and I went to have lunch somewhere.

I was so cold and so tired that I went back to the hostel by 14h. It’s a nice place to just hang out in. I did my laundry, Skyped with Mum, met a guy from London, washed my hair and read my book until it was finally time for dinner. The sunsets at 4pm, which is so deceptive to my perception of time, to me sunset means it’s almost dinner time…

That evening I remembered watching What a Girl Wants years back and asking Mum what “jetlag” means. We had never travelled and I didn’t know the concept at all. Mum tried to explain it, but didn’t really know it either. Now I am very familiar with jetlag and the idea of eating “normal” food.

Cheese and change

Cheeses, still eating many different types.

I’ve learned that soft goat cheese goes really well with spinach.

I love mozzarella and tomato salad, adding some basil makes it perfect.

I learned that taking the cheese out of the fridge 30 minutes before eating will improve the taste tremendously.

I’ve learned…
I’ve changed…

A few years ago I blogged that I would not return to Dubai Mall, that I did not like Moroccan baths. I did not like fish, I’d never eaten duck. Because I had never done it I didn’t like it, but I also didn’t know it.

Now I shop at the mall weekly, I love being scrubbed by a Moroccan lady in a steam filled room and I argue with fish sellers about the freshness of the fish based on the color or the eyes and gills. I’ve ordered duck at a Chinese restaurant and will be cooking one for the first time this weekend.

Many things I use to think are weird or unapproachable are now part of my norm.

Never say never.


After a lot of searching we found a lovely, though very large, apartment 40minutes outside Dubai in a place called Ras Al Khaimah (RAK). We’ve only been here once and it’s more of a village than a city, much more traditional. The place is smaller, the prices are lower and the culture is stronger.

It was sad to leave Dubai in a way, but I guess that’s good. How horrid would it be to leave a place after living there for four years and not feel sad? I packed for Denmark, while I was still able to locate all my clothes, put most of my cupboards contents into 2 suitcases and left the rest for the movers.

The day of the move was as my one Indian friend put it “tedious”, but by 8pm on 26 December we were in the new apartment, almost forgetting about holidays and Christmas and all of it. 27 December I was up by 5am and unpacking like craze, 8 hours later I had a room well, something resembling a room and the bathroom boxes had been located. Score!

I had been pleasantly surprised the previous evening when one of the movers called me to the front door, the neighbors had come to say hi and introduce themselves. This was a very different building culture than the one we had lived in in Dubai, there I knew of the neighbors, but we never truly spoke…

Packing up in South Africa had been a mission, going through the accumulated things of 20years in a large house had taken so much time. Our Dubai home had been rather small, in a cozy way, there just wasn’t space (or time) to hoard up that much stuff. I threw out some obsolete things, but most of my belongings came with me.

Yesterday was New Year’s Eve. The strange things was that the whole country around me was still working and shopping and moving on, even on Christmas day everything kept going. I’m living in a Muslim country… Anyway, we bought a stove and I was waiting for it to be delivered, so when I opened the door to find a man with a strong Scottish accent standing there I was rather surprised. He was inviting me and Mum to an open house to celebrate the New Year. He was our downstairs neighbor (p.s. the stove has not arrived yet).

We arrived at their apartment and the door was opened by the same man, now wearing a kilt, accompanied by his wife wearing a tinsel Alice band saying Happy New Year on it. Later all the guests were given some of these. It was a nice evening.

Our Dubai apartment had provided the laundry machine, the dishwasher and the stove. These at least the laundry machine and the stove were priorities in the new apartment. I had prepared food, bought some microwavable boxes and packed to frozen take-aways to take us through the first week, which turned out to be a brilliant idea. I forgot how tired moving makes me.

Yesterday for lunch we finished the last of this food and the kitchen was now ready to be used, I made a lovely roast chicken for dinner. The kitchen’s windows, along with all the other windows, looks out over the sea. You can hear the waves crashing down on the sand if you open the windows.

I had unpacked the kitchen almost by accident. I had heard this thing that you should unpack at least one box every day. So by moving an old study desk into the kitchen to create some more space I had thought I’d just see how much of one the box’s contents I could pack into the seemingly small kitchen. To my total surprise I suddenly found a place for everything, all the boxes were unpacked within a few hours. I felt like Billy Crystal in City Slickers, “look what I made! I made a [kitchen]!” I baked some muffins and this gave me a really good feeling of where everything was.


Moving. We are moving to a new apartment 40min from Dubai in a “village” called Ras al Khaimah. I’m all packed and ready to go, but the move got delayed. Feels rather strange living out of a suitcase in my own room. I demolished my shower yesterday and I have no idea where my pens are. Busy working on an assignment in communication studies, hoping the fact that my “group members” are fictional is not that obvious!

Moving to a new city reminded me of when I moved to Dubai, I was so determined to go back to South Africa right after Dubai I didn’t give any thought to the idea that living leads to change. Now I don’t really want to go back, but I also don’t want to rule it out. I guess we should never make harsh statements. Moving to Dubai changed my perspective and what once seemed logical now seems like one of many possibilities.

I’m visiting Denmark in January and it’s getting really exciting. I’ve packed for Denmark while I was able to locate all my clothes, so that’s ready at least. Meeting up with one of my oldest and closest friends in Copenhagen, like we always said we would when we were kids. Old dreams turning into realities.

Exhausted. Working the entire weekend. Skipping Christmas till I have time for it.